TIP #2.
Okay guys, sitting across the table from your wife-to-be and "her" planner and shaking you head is not the way to get what you want done. Actually that's a sign that you are in trouble cause you ideal woman just turned into a Bridezilla.
Okay, before you even get to that stage let me help you out, actually you might still be able to apply this information if Bridezilla has already emerged. First, most women go nuts as soon as they are proposed to, so usually if you are thinking about proposing maybe it's better to have this talk with her months in advance....lol.
After the proposal, take the woman of your dreams aside and talk to her. Let her know that you want to try to make all of her dreams come true but you also want to make the dream of a happy and comfortable marriage by being able to afford those things that makes life just a little more comfortable. Let her know that you want to be able to afford a home; education for you future children; occasional vacations and to keep that spark going. Most women after hearing about the kids will start to listen by now; if she doesn't oh boy I can safely say she neither wants kids or the Bridezilla has completely taking over.
Now spring the 30% budget cut on her. Are you still alive? Lol, good.
Advice your special one, to choose a planner that can stick within your new budget and can give you the most for your money and bring you as close as possible to that dream wedding.
This timetable will help:-
Attire- 9% Ceremony- 3%
*Flowers- 8% Reception- 48%
*Photo/Video-12% Rings- 3%
*All Music- 7% Transportation- 2%
* a faction of this % is added to the full cost of all aspects of the reception making it's %- 68%
Hey fellas, wanna really get her to love this idea (this plan requires having 2 supporting families); tell her to use the planner to get ideas and use family members to bring those realities to life. Tell her, you will help out as much as possible (okay fellas, say it and mean it).
She's listening.
Now remind her how you felt the first time you saw her. Remind her of how much she means to you and how much you love her. Tell her what expectations you have for your future together.
Now fellas, don't drop the ball on this one. She has agreed to the 30% budget cut.
Now you have to keep your promises and be interactive in helping to plan your wedding; if you don't Bridezilla will rise again.
In my next blog......ladies time to pick a date and book the hall; fellas put your two cents in.
Okay guys, sitting across the table from your wife-to-be and "her" planner and shaking you head is not the way to get what you want done. Actually that's a sign that you are in trouble cause you ideal woman just turned into a Bridezilla.
Okay, before you even get to that stage let me help you out, actually you might still be able to apply this information if Bridezilla has already emerged. First, most women go nuts as soon as they are proposed to, so usually if you are thinking about proposing maybe it's better to have this talk with her months in advance....lol.
After the proposal, take the woman of your dreams aside and talk to her. Let her know that you want to try to make all of her dreams come true but you also want to make the dream of a happy and comfortable marriage by being able to afford those things that makes life just a little more comfortable. Let her know that you want to be able to afford a home; education for you future children; occasional vacations and to keep that spark going. Most women after hearing about the kids will start to listen by now; if she doesn't oh boy I can safely say she neither wants kids or the Bridezilla has completely taking over.
Now spring the 30% budget cut on her. Are you still alive? Lol, good.
Advice your special one, to choose a planner that can stick within your new budget and can give you the most for your money and bring you as close as possible to that dream wedding.
This timetable will help:-
Attire- 9% Ceremony- 3%
*Flowers- 8% Reception- 48%
*Photo/Video-12% Rings- 3%
*All Music- 7% Transportation- 2%
* a faction of this % is added to the full cost of all aspects of the reception making it's %- 68%
Hey fellas, wanna really get her to love this idea (this plan requires having 2 supporting families); tell her to use the planner to get ideas and use family members to bring those realities to life. Tell her, you will help out as much as possible (okay fellas, say it and mean it).
She's listening.
Now remind her how you felt the first time you saw her. Remind her of how much she means to you and how much you love her. Tell her what expectations you have for your future together.
Now fellas, don't drop the ball on this one. She has agreed to the 30% budget cut.
Now you have to keep your promises and be interactive in helping to plan your wedding; if you don't Bridezilla will rise again.
In my next blog......ladies time to pick a date and book the hall; fellas put your two cents in.
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